They Don’t like You but They Keep Tabs 

People are amusing to say the least! They won’t like you but they keep tabs on you. > _< lol

I’m not in high school any more, old Nancy wouldn’t hesitate to kick a bitches ass, but I met Jesus and I know better now. LOL Back in the day, my anger wouldn’t allow me to hesitate before I reacted… as you grow older, you realize you really can’t get away going to the alley and beating the shit of each other. I grew up in a hispanic community where people who talked shit about you was settled with physical violence. Today, I reflected on my growth. I hesitated before lashing out. It’s easier to lash out to weak people with the same energy they are giving to you but it takes more control to let it slide…. to be the bigger person. We grow from these challenges! It was hard to keep my composure and not strike back with their same low tactics but that wouldn’t have served me any purpose.

In the end, weak people talk about others. I mind my own and if I don’t vibe with you, I simply don’t, I don’t wish you ill, I just don’t fuck with you. People who talk about others disgust me. Whenever I’ve had a ‘friend’ that constantly talked about others, I quickly distanced myself because I started to wonder what they say about me when I’m not there.

Regardless, to those haters keeping tab, talking shit, throwing indirect comments my way, Hi ✋️  , welcome back hunny! Stay lurking because I make money off your view! Hahaha I mean mama, you should want to be friends, I could teach you how to pick up a brush and blend that unblended eyeshadow, make your face appear thinner & all the beauty tricks I know LOL So in response to the indirect remarks about makeup… yes boo, I love makeup, I am a makeup junkie. It doesn’t offend me, I’m flattered you notice my additions. Anyhoo…

I love having a platform where I get to talk about what I want, whatever I want and inspire people. To my beautiful ladies that follow me on my snap, follow my YouTube, ask me questions and empower one another … I fuck with you! I love you! I embrace you and your the reason I blog, talk about beauty, do tutorials, because we females need to empower one another, teach one another, grow, learn, & not compete with one another.

With Love,

Nancy 💋


Trust Vibes… Energy Doesn’t Lie

“Trust the vibes you get. Energy doesn’t lie”

Have you ever met someone and for some reason you feel a negative vibe right away? You can’t explain it but something is off? Well, this feeling is there for a reason. I’m not saying every time you feel this, something is wrong with that person, but rather your energies are not aligning… and that’s ok. There are people in this life that are meant for you and others that aren’t… and that’s ok.

Sometimes there’s literally no explanation and you can’t make sense of these bad vibes but you don’t need to have one. Do what makes you happy! I always try to meet new people with open an open mind and never judge people by their appearance. However, if for whatever reason, I’m feeling an undoubtedly negative feeling and I feel judged by this person … I’m out. You intuition is usually right. I’ve always given myself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives me bad vibes. In the beginning when I first started to notice this, I’d try to make sense of it & give the benefit of the doubt & have these people in my life. Yet, I always proved myself that there was a reason as to why I was feeling the way I was. I know now that there is no need to have an explanation or make sense of it. I trust the inner voice when it talks to me.

Let your intuition speak to you. Listen to it. Many times I have found myself removing myself from situations that are causing me so much distress that I could have avoided if I initially would have listened to my intuition. Forcing yourself to continue to carry relationships, friendships, and even family ties, when you are not feeling positive vibes doesn’t have to be an option. It’s not what your body and soul needs.

One thing I can always do that helps me remove the noise and get some clarity is hiking!  Solstice Canyon in Malibu is always so beautiful. Enjoy these pictures I took while on my sunset hike. You can’t believe how much more happy I am  now that there is daylight later in the day! YAY!

“Never discredit your gut instinct. You are not paranoid. Your body can pick up bad vibrations. If something deep inside of you says something is not right about a person or situation, trust it.”